39 Awesome 4th Birthday Party Ideas for Boys (Themes, Cakes & More!)

Four is such a fun age to celebrate—your little guy is growing up fast, full of energy, and probably obsessed with a few favorite things. 

Whether he’s into dinosaurs, race cars, building stuff, or digging in the dirt, there’s a perfect theme out there to match his big personality.

This post is packed with 4th birthday party ideas for boys—everything from fun themes to cake inspo, photo ideas, and a few genius tips to make the day go smoothly. 

Let’s make his fourth birthday unforgettable!

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Which 4th Birthday Party Theme Fits Your Boy?

💡 Not sure where to start? Here’s a quick guide:

🏗️ Into trucks and tools? Try Four and Digging It, Handy Helper, or Ready to Crush FOUR!

🐾 Animal lover? Check out ROAR I’m FOUR (Lion), FOUR-ever Wild (Safari), or O-FISH-ally FOUR

🌳 Loves the outdoors? Go with Made FOUR Adventure, Splash into FOUR, or Don’t Bug Me, I’m FOUR

🚀 High-energy? Try FOUR-nado, Reach FOUR the Stars, or Jumping FOUR Joy

Sports-obsessed? Don’t miss Fourth Down, This Baller is FOUR, or Grand Slam!

39 Fun & Creative 4th Birthday Party Themes for Boys

A smiling young boy dressed in a bright orange construction vest and yellow hard hat stands in front of a “Four and Digging It” birthday party backdrop, featuring yellow, orange, and black balloons and streamers for a construction-themed 4th birthday celebration.

1. 🚜 Four and Digging It! (Construction Theme)

This party is a hit with any kid who loves dump trucks and dirt. 

Set the tone with yellow and black color decor—think caution tape streamers, plastic construction hats, and signs like “Birthday Zone” and “Work in Progress.” 

Set up a mini “dig site” using a kiddie pool filled with sand or kinetic sand and hide toy construction vehicles or plastic gems.

🛠️ Decor Ideas: Cone centerpieces, road sign cutouts, and tablecloths that look like concrete or blueprints.

🧃 Snacks: “Wrecking balls” (donut holes), “building blocks” (Rice Krispie treats), and juice boxes with printable toolbelt wraps.

🎂 Cake Idea: A chocolate cake covered in crushed Oreos for “dirt,” topped with toy dump trucks and mini caution flags.

💡 Pro Tip: Give each kid a plastic hard hat and a name tag sticker like “Crew Member Owen.”

Excited young boy holding a green inflatable T-Rex balloon in front of a gold number 4 balloon and a green jungle leaf streamer backdrop. A fun dinosaur-themed 4th birthday party setup perfect for a “ROAR I’m FOUR!” celebration.

2. 🦖 ROAR I’m FOUR!

Let your little paleontologist stomp, dig, and roar the day away! 

Decorate with faux jungle vines, green streamers, and cardboard cutouts of dinosaurs. 

Set up a sand-filled bin for a fossil dig using paintbrushes and buried plastic dino bones.

🦕 Fun Activity: Host a “Dino Egg Hunt” using reusable eggs filled with small dino toys or treats.

📸 Photo Op: Create a “ROAR! I’m FOUR!” backdrop with jungle leaves and a giant inflatable dino.

🎂 Cake Idea: Volcano cake with candy lava or a layered “dino dig” cake with toy dinosaurs sticking out.

🦖 Optional Extra: Play dinosaur sound effects or theme music to immerse kids in the prehistoric fun.

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3. 🏎️ Need FOUR Speed (Race Car Theme)

Rev up for a high-speed celebration! Use checkered flag banners, traffic cone decorations, and number 4 “racing bibs” for each guest. 

Set up a racetrack outside (chalk it on the driveway or use tape indoors) and let kids race toy cars—or themselves!

🚥 Decor Ideas: Black, white, and red balloons, car-themed centerpieces, and a pit stop fuel station with juice pouches.

🏁 Activity: Make “licenses” at a welcome table with each kid’s photo and name. Offer ride-on toys or cardboard box cars to “race.”

🎂 Cake Idea: Racetrack cake with Hot Wheels zooming across the top and a bold fondant “4” in the center.

🚗 Bonus Touch: Label snacks with names like “Dipsticks” (pretzels), “Lug Nuts” (M&Ms), and “Spare Tires” (chocolate donuts).

Little boy smiling at his puppy-themed 4th birthday party, holding a stuffed dog in front of a “Ready FOUR a Pawty” sign with balloon arch featuring dog bone balloons in brown, blue, green, and white. Cute dog birthday party for a four-year-old boy.

4. 🐾 Ready FOUR a Pawty

Calling all puppy lovers! Turn your party into a mini adoption center.

 Set up a table where each kid can “adopt” a stuffed puppy and decorate a collar with their name. 

Create a doghouse photo booth with paw print backdrops and play games like “Fetch the Bone” using a ball toss or scavenger hunt.

🐾 Decor Ideas: Paw print balloons, dog bowl snack trays, and “Adoption Certificates.”

🍪 Snacks: Bone-shaped sugar cookies, “puppy chow” mix, and juice boxes labeled as “Toilet Water.”

🎂 Cake Idea: A round puppy-face cake with frosting ears and candy eyes.

💡 Optional Activity: Let kids decorate dog bandanas or design tags for their new furry friends.

Smiling boy celebrating his 4th birthday with a “FOUR-EVER RAD” black-and-white checkered theme. He holds a checkered number 4 balloon by a poolside, wearing a graphic shirt with the party theme, next to smiley face balloons in yellow, black, and white.

5. 😎 FOUR-ever Rad (Cool Kid Theme)

If your four-year-old is all about big shades, bright colors, and major attitude, this “cool kid” party brings the vibe. 

Think 90s throwback meets mini skater energy—it’s playful, bold, and totally fun.

🧢 Decor Ideas: Neon signs, checkerboard patterns, smiley faces, lightning bolts, and emoji accents. 

Hang up a “FOUR-EVER RAD” banner and set out photo props like plastic sunglasses, boom boxes, and foam fingers.

🛹 Activities:

  • Set up a “Rad Obstacle Course” in the yard or driveway
  • Offer a dress-up station with snapback hats, funky sunglasses, and fake tattoos
  • Let kids decorate canvas fanny packs or slap bracelets

🍕 Food Ideas:

  • Pizza party with crazy topping combos
  • Rainbow fruit skewers
  • “Totally Tubular” juice boxes with neon straws

🎂 Cake Idea:  Go for a bright color explosion! Think neon drip, checkerboard layers, or a tiered cake with a graffiti-style fondant topper.

💡 Fun Favor: Sunglasses in every color and neon stickers in mini tins marked “Stay Cool.”

Football-themed 4th birthday party setup with green sequin backdrop, gold balloon letters spelling “FOURTH DOWN,” a gold number 4 balloon, football balloons, and a balloon arch in brown, green, white, black, and gold.

6. 🏈 Fourth Down (Football Theme)

Game on! If your little MVP loves football, this birthday theme is a total touchdown. 

Perfect for fall birthdays or Super Bowl babies, you can turn your house or backyard into a mini stadium.

🏟️ Decor Ideas: Turf-inspired tablecloths, pennant banners, goalpost balloons, and personalized jerseys or shirts that say “Team [Name] #4.” 

Use mini footballs, whistles, and referee stripes to round out the look.

🎯 Activities:

  • “Touchdown Toss” game using mini footballs and laundry baskets
  • Obstacle course or flag football game
  • Let kids decorate foam fingers or DIY their own team pennants

🌭 Food Ideas: Stadium-style snacks like mini hot dogs, popcorn in paper cones, nachos, and sports drinks in coolers labeled “hydration station.”

🎂 Cake Idea: A football-shaped cake or a green field sheet cake with frosting yard lines and a bold fondant “4” in the end zone.

💡 Bonus Tip: Hand out referee whistles, foam fingers, or small footballs as party favors.

A smiling young boy in a "FLY" trucker hat celebrates his 4th birthday outdoors with a white frosted cake topped with an orange number 4 candle. Behind him is a colorful yard sign that reads "WILL IS FOUR" with a cartoon fly replacing the letter O. Ladybug toys and green grass complete the playful bug-themed party scene.

7. 🐝 Don’t Bug Me, I’m FOUR! (Bug Bash Theme)

Whether your kiddo loves beetles, butterflies, or just digging in the dirt, this bug-themed party is crawling with fun! 

Use bright greens, yellows, and oranges for a backyard vibe, and decorate with bug nets, paper ladybugs, and butterfly wings.

🐛 Decor Ideas: Leaf garlands, bug balloons, picnic-style blankets, and paper cutouts of bees, ants, and caterpillars.

🪲 Activities: Bug scavenger hunt, magnifying glass exploration table, or a “Build-a-Bug” craft using pom-poms and pipe cleaners.

🍓 Food Ideas: “Ants on a Log” (celery, peanut butter, raisins), gummy worms in dirt pudding cups, and butterfly-shaped sandwiches.

🎂 Cake Idea: A colorful caterpillar cake made with cupcakes or a classic sheet cake with fondant bugs and edible grass.

💡 Fun Favor: Mini bug-catching kits with a net, plastic magnifier, and a toy insect to take home.

Firefighter-themed 4th birthday party setup featuring a bold sign that reads “Calling All Firefighters. Grab Your Gear. A 4-Alarm Fire Is Here!” with a large red number 4, a firefighter hat, yellow and red plates, and red, yellow, and black balloons.

8. 🚒 Four Alarm Fun—It’s a Fire Truck Party!

If your little one dreams of becoming a firefighter, this red-hot theme is perfect! 

Deck out your space with red and yellow balloons, Dalmatian spots, and firehouse-themed signs. 

Set up a “Junior Firefighter Training Camp” with obstacle courses, water blaster target games, and a dress-up station with plastic helmets and vests.

🔥 Decor Ideas: Firetruck cardboard cutouts, flame streamers, and “Stop, Drop, and Roll” banners. 

🚒 Activity: Invite the local fire department for a quick visit (many will stop by for birthdays!) or create a cardboard firetruck photo booth. 

🍕 Food Ideas: “Firehouse Pizza,” “Hydrant Dogs” (hot dogs), and “Flamin’ Cheese Puffs.” 

🎂 Cake Idea: A 3D firetruck cake or a sheet cake frosted like a fire station with firefighter figurines.

💡 Fun Favor: Hand out firefighter hats, mini flashlights, or a DIY badge to each guest!

Young boy wearing a green “Made 4 Adventure” t-shirt stands in front of a birthday banner that says “Made FOUR Adventure” with earthy green, brown, and orange balloons beside him, celebrating his 4th birthday with an outdoor adventure party theme.

9. 🏕️ Made FOUR Adventure (Camping Theme)

Perfect for outdoorsy kids or backyard explorers, this camping theme brings the wilderness to your party!

Pitch a small tent for play, scatter faux trees or pinecones, and use lanterns or string lights for a cozy “campfire” feel. 

Set up a “build your own trail mix” bar and plan nature-themed activities like bug hunts or a s’mores relay race.

🔥 Decor Ideas: Burlap table runners, wooden signs with “Camp [Name],” and forest animal cutouts.

🍫 Food Ideas: S’mores dip, “dirt cups” with gummy worms, and hot dog roasting if you’ve got a fire pit or grill.

🎂 Cake Idea: Campfire cake with pretzel stick logs and marshmallow toppers.

💡 Optional Touch: Hand out “Junior Ranger” badges as favors.

10. 🌌 Reach FOUR the Stars (Space Theme)

Blast off into birthday fun with a party that’s truly out of this world! 

This space-themed bash is perfect for little astronauts, rocket lovers, or kids fascinated by planets and stars. 

Whether you go galaxy glam or playful and cartoony, the sky’s the limit.

🚀 Decor Ideas:
Hang paper lantern “planets,” use silver star garlands, and create a galaxy balloon arch in deep blues, purples, and metallics. 

Add a cardboard rocket photo booth or inflatable aliens for fun.

🪐 Activities:

  • “Moon Rock Hunt” using foil-wrapped prizes hidden around the yard
  • Decorate-your-own cardboard rocket cutouts
  • Launch baking soda + vinegar rockets (with supervision!)

🍕 Food Ideas:  “Rocket Dogs” (pigs in a blanket), “Alien Punch” (lime sherbet + Sprite), and “Astro Popcorn” tossed with edible glitter or stars.

🎂 Cake Idea:  A galaxy swirl cake with dark frosting and sparkles, or a rocket-shaped cake with colorful fondant flames.

💫 Fun Favor: Glow-in-the-dark stars, space-themed stickers, or astronaut helmets made from dollar store supplies.

11. 🐅 FOUR-ever Wild (Jungle or Safari Theme)

Let little party animals go wild with a safari-style celebration. 

Decorate with animal prints, leafy vines, and cardboard zebras, lions, and giraffes. Add a face-painting station or temporary tattoos for a fun touch.

🌿 Decor Ideas: Faux tropical plants, wooden crates, and safari hats for guests.

🦓 Activity: Host a “safari scavenger hunt” to find plush animals around the yard.

🎂 Cake Idea: Animal print tiers or a lion-faced cake with piped mane.

🧃 Snack Idea: “Jungle Juice” (fruit punch) and “animal crackers on safari.”

12. 🛫 Ready FOUR Takeoff (Airplane Theme)

Take your little pilot on an airborne birthday adventure! 

Transform your space into an airport terminal with “boarding passes” as invitations and signs for “Gate 4.” 

Set up a paper airplane-making station and race them down the runway.

✈️ Decor Ideas: Cloud balloons, hanging paper airplanes, and cardboard control towers.

🍪 Food Ideas: “In-flight snacks” (mini bags of pretzels, peanuts), and fruit kabob jet streams.

🎂 Cake Idea: Airplane-shaped cake or sky-blue cake with fluffy frosting clouds.

🧳 Pro Tip: Hand out toy pilot wings or mini suitcases (favor boxes) for added charm.

13. ⛳ Turning FORE (Golf Party)

Fore! This golf-themed birthday is perfect for a little guy who loves mini golf, watching Dad play, or just swinging a club around the backyard. 

Whether you turn your yard into a mini putt-putt course or keep it casual with golf-inspired snacks and games, this party is sure to score.

Decor Ideas: Green turf table runners, golf ball centerpieces, white and green balloons, and a custom “Turning FORE” banner. 

Hang scorecards or use golf tees and balls for table accents.

🏌️ Activities:  Set up a simple putting green using turf mats, pool noodles, and plastic cups. Or create a mini 4-hole course with obstacles like cones, ramps, and tunnels.

🍉 Food Ideas:  “Club sandwiches,” “golf ball” cheese puffs, fruit kabobs stuck into Styrofoam golf balls, and drinks served with striped straws that look like tees.

🎂 Cake Idea:  A green-frosted cake with a flagstick and fondant golf ball on top—or a round cake designed like a golf ball sitting on “grass.”

💡 Bonus Favor: Give each kid a visor and a plastic club to take home for some post-party play.

14. 🧑‍🍳 FOUR-ever Sweet (Donut Theme)

If your little dude has a sweet tooth, a donut party is a hole lot of fun. 

Decorate with pastel or bright sprinkle-themed decor, hang paper donut garlands, and create a DIY donut decorating station.

🍩 Decor Ideas: Giant inflatable donuts, “Donut Grow Up” sign, and sprinkle confetti.

🍓 Food Ideas: Donuts of every kind, of course! Add fruit kabobs, milk in glass bottles, and donut-hole skewers.

🎂 Cake Idea: Donut tower or a cake with a giant fondant donut topper.

🎉 Extra Idea: Use a tiered cake stand to display donuts as a centerpiece.

15. 🤸 Jump 4 Joy (Bounce House Bash)

If your four-year-old never stops moving, a bounce house birthday is the perfect way to celebrate! 

This high-energy party is all about jumping, laughing, and letting the birthday boy and his friends burn off that nonstop four-year-old energy.

🎉 Decor Ideas:
Stick with bright, cheerful colors—like red, blue, yellow, and green—to match the bounce house vibes. 

Use balloon clusters, giant number 4 cutouts, and banners that say “Jumping FOUR Joy!” or “Bounce into 4!”

🧁 Snack Ideas:
Keep it simple and kid-friendly: individual popcorn bags, fruit skewers, juice boxes, and frosted cupcakes with jumpy toppers.

🎂 Cake Idea:
A colorful sprinkle cake with a fondant bounce house on top—or a tiered cake with little jumping kid figurines.

💡 Party Tip: Schedule the bounce time early in the party, then offer snacks and cake afterward while they cool down.

16. 🌪️ Four-nado (Wild Energy Theme)

Got a wild child who’s always zooming, spinning, and storming through the house? 

Embrace the chaos with a “Four-nado” party that celebrates his nonstop energy!

This fun, silly theme is all about vibrant colors, movement, and just letting kids go a little wild.

🎉 Decor Ideas:  Use a mix of bright, clashing colors—think red, blue, green, yellow—and twist streamers all around the party space like mini tornadoes. 

Hang signs that say “Warning: Four-nado Zone” and “High Winds Ahead.” 

Swirl balloons together to mimic cyclone shapes.

💨 Activity Ideas: Set up energy-burning stations like a mini bounce house, an obstacle course, or a “whirlwind dance party” with spinning lights and music. 

Add a craft table where kids can make their own “storm goggles” or windsock streamers.

🍭 Snack Ideas:  “Twister sticks” (pretzel rods with colorful candy melts), pinwheel sandwiches, and fruit kabobs. 

Serve drinks with spiral straws to keep the theme going.

🎂 Cake Idea:  A whirlwind cake with colorful frosting swirls and candy flying around the sides—think lollipops, sprinkles, and gummy bears caught in the storm!

💡 Pro Tip: This is the perfect theme if your four-year-old doesn’t want to sit still—plan lots of movement-based fun to match the vibe!

17. 🏖️ CaliFOURnia Dreamin’ (Beachy Theme)

Bring those SoCal beach vibes to your backyard with a laid-back, sunshine-soaked celebration. 

This is a great theme for summer birthdays—and perfect if your four-year-old loves waves, surfboards, or just running barefoot in the sand.

🏄 Decor Ideas:
Use bright tropical colors, surfboard signs, beach balls, and palm leaf garlands. 

Hang a “CaliFOURnia Dreamin’” banner and lay out beach towels or picnic blankets for chill seating.

🍍 Activity Ideas:
Set up a mini “surf shack” for photo ops, a sandcastle station with kinetic sand or play sand, or a limbo contest with beach tunes playing in the background.

🍉 Food Ideas:
Fruit kabobs, goldfish crackers, watermelon wedges, and “beach pail” snack cups filled with popcorn or snack mix.

🎂 Cake Idea:
A beach-themed cake with blue frosting “waves,” crushed graham cracker “sand,” and a fondant surfboard or palm tree topper.

💡 Pro Tip: Provide sunglasses or shell necklaces as party favors for a cool coastal touch!

18. 👻 FOUR Ever Spooky (Halloween-Inspired Theme)

Throwing a fall birthday bash? 

Lean into the spooky season with a Halloween-meets-birthday party that’s more cute than creepy. 

Think pastel ghosts, smiling pumpkins, and a “Boo! I’m FOUR!” vibe that’s equal parts fun and festive.

🕸️ Decor Ideas:
Use a mix of blush pink, orange, and black balloons, ghost garlands, and cobwebs with glittery spiders. 

Set up a “Trick or Treat Yourself” candy table or a pastel haunted house photo booth.

🍬 Activity Ideas:
Host a costume parade, a pumpkin ring toss, or a decorate-your-own treat bag station.
🎨 Set up a mini craft table for ghost masks or spooky sticker fun.

🎂 Cake Idea:
A ghost-shaped cake, mini monster cupcakes, or a pastel drip cake topped with a “FOUR-ever Spooky” topper and candy eyeballs.

🎁 Favor Tip: Fill small cauldrons or Halloween buckets with glow sticks, stickers, and a few sweets for each guest.

19. 💫 Un-Fourgettable (Classy & Sweet Theme)

This theme is for the moms who want something timeless, sweet, and beautiful without being over the top. 

Think soft blues, neutrals, and gold accents—or swap in sage green or dusty rose depending on your little guy’s vibe.

🎈 Decor Ideas:
Balloon garlands in muted tones, a big “FOUR” marquee, and simple wooden or acrylic signage with a touch of shimmer. 

Add twinkle lights or paper stars for an extra magical feel.

🍰 Cake Idea:
A single-tier cake with soft frosting swirls and a gold “Four” cake topper, or a number 4-shaped cake dressed up with florals or fruit.

🧺 Bonus Tips:

  • Stick with elegant textures like linen or wood
  • Set up a keepsake table with a “4 Favorite Things” sign about your kiddo
  • Keep the food simple—think charcuterie for kids, mini sandwiches, and cupcakes in gold liners

This one feels a little more grown-up but still so full of wonder—just like four itself.

20. 🦈 Fouroscious (Shark Party)

If your kid is obsessed with sharks, ocean life, or Jaws reruns with Dad—this theme is a total splash! 

Think bold blues, silver accents, and all things toothy and fin-tastic.

🌊 Decor Ideas: Ocean-blue balloons, fishnet table runners, and a “Shark Zone” welcome sign. Hang shark fins from the ceiling or place cardboard standees around the yard for extra bite.

🦈 Activity Ideas:

  • Shark tooth dig in kinetic sand
  • “Feed the Shark” bean bag toss
  • Ocean sensory bins for younger guests

🍿 Snack Ideas: “Shark Bait” (popcorn + gummy sharks), blue jello cups with Swedish Fish, and “Fish & Chips” (goldfish crackers and potato chips).

🎂 Cake Idea: A wave-inspired cake with fondant sharks swimming on top, or go big with a 3D shark mouth cake ready to chomp a #4 candle.

💡 Bonus Idea: Use a kiddie pool filled with blue plastic balls or balloons for a DIY “shark tank” ball pit.

21. 🚙 Ready 4 Action (Superhero Theme)

Your little hero deserves a party that saves the day! 

Go for a bold color scheme—red, blue, yellow—and hang up comic-style signs like “Zap!” “Boom!” and “Pow!” 

Set up a “training course” obstacle path where kids can prove their super skills.

🦸 Decor Ideas: Capes for every guest, photo booth with cityscape backdrop, and balloon clusters with lightning bolts.
🍿 Food Ideas: “Hero Sandwiches,” “Power Punch” (fruit juice), and cookies with superhero symbols.
🎂 Cake Idea: A tiered cake with fondant capes or a single-tier cake with a comic book-style “4!” topper.

🦹 Optional Touch: Create custom “ID badges” for each child with their superhero name and powers.

22. 🎉 Bro, I’m Four (Bright & Bold Theme)

Sometimes the best party theme is all about energy and color! 

Go for a vibrant, mix-and-match look with bright balloons, colorful streamers, and bold tableware in primary colors.

This theme doesn’t need to be tied to a specific interest—just make it fun, loud, and full of personality.

🎨 Decor Ideas: Colorful “4” signs, photo backdrop with rainbow streamers, and giant balloon numbers.

🧃 Food Ideas: Rainbow fruit kabobs, colorful cupcakes, and sprinkle-covered donuts.

🎂 Cake Idea: Brightly frosted cake with bold “FOUR” letters or a rainbow cake with colorful layers.

🎁 Optional Touch: Let kids decorate their own party hats or goodie bags using stickers and markers.

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23. 🔴 Four Times the Fun (Primary Color Bash)

Bring on the bold! This theme is perfect for a vibrant, energetic four-year-old who loves all the colors

Focus on bright red, yellow, blue, and green decorations for a cheerful, timeless party.

🟥 Decor Ideas: Think color-blocked balloons, primary-colored tableware, and a big “FOUR” sign in rainbow block letters.

Use simple party hats, streamers, and polka dot patterns to tie it all together.

🟨 Activity Ideas: Set up stations by color—red building blocks, yellow play dough, blue water beads, and green painting!

You can also let kids color their own party crowns or wear different colored shirts for a fun group photo.

🟦 Cake Idea: A simple white cake with bright rainbow sprinkles and a #4 candle, or do four tiers in each primary color!

🟩 Optional Favor: Send kids home with small boxes filled with color-matching crayons, stickers, and treats.

24. 🪿 Fourever Silly (Silly Goose Theme)

Perfect for the goofy, giggly kid who’s always making people laugh! 

This theme embraces fun and randomness with playful touches like googly eyes, quirky signs, and rubber goose or duck decorations.

🎈 Decor Ideas: Mix-and-match colors, silly face balloons, inflatable animals, and signs that say “Honk if you’re FOUR!”

🦆 Activity Idea: Set up a “Waddle Relay” race or a station for kids to design their own silly hats.

🎂 Cake Idea: A goose-shaped cake or one with googly eyes, feathers, and a funky party hat.

🎉 Fun Favor: Hand out rubber ducks with sunglasses or mini whoopee cushions labeled “For Maximum Silliness.”

25. 🏴‍☠️ A Pirate’s Life 4 Me

Ahoy, matey! 

If your kid loves treasure maps and sailing the seven seas, this pirate-themed party will be a swashbuckling hit. 

Hand out pirate hats and eye patches at the door and set the scene with nautical flags and treasure chests filled with chocolate coins.

🏴‍☠️ Decor Ideas: Red & black balloons, Jolly Roger flags, fishnet table covers, and a treasure chest filled with favors.

🥪 Food Ideas: “Pirate booty” popcorn, “cannonballs” (meatballs), and “gold doubloon” cookies.

🎂 Cake Idea: Treasure chest cake with chocolate gold coins or a ship-shaped cake sailing across blue frosting.

🗺️ Fun Activity: Host a treasure hunt with clues leading to hidden treats or small toys.

26. 🍦 It’s COOL to Be FOUR (Popsicle Theme)

A popsicle-themed birthday is sweet, simple, and perfect for summer! 

Go bright and colorful with rainbow popsicle balloons, striped table runners, and popsicle garlands. 

Set up a DIY popsicle bar with juice molds or mini freezies, and hand out kid-friendly sunglasses as favors.

🍭 Decor Ideas: Popsicle-shaped signs, “Stay Cool” banners, and a pastel balloon arch.

🍓 Snack Ideas: Fruit skewers, mini ice cream cones, and popsicles (of course!).

🎂 Cake Idea: Popsicle-shaped cake pops or a tiered cake with candy drip and fondant popsicles.

🧊 Optional Fun: Water table or sprinkler station to keep things chill if you’re outdoors!

27. ⚒️ Ready to Crush FOUR! (Monster Truck Theme)

Go big or go home! 

This party is perfect for truck-loving toddlers who dream of revving engines and crushing cars. 

Set up a racetrack or dirt pit and use toy monster trucks for activities.

🚛 Decor Ideas: Mud-splatter signs, crushed car centerpieces, and traffic cones.

🛻 Snack Ideas: “Fuel Up” juice station, “Tire Tracks” (chocolate-dipped pretzels), and “Dirt Cups” with gummy worms.

🎂 Cake Idea: Monster truck cake with candy rubble and toy trucks climbing up.

💥 Extra Activity: Let kids decorate their own cardboard truck fronts to “ride” in.

28. 🐟 O-FISH-ally FOUR

A cute, colorful under-the-sea celebration for your little guppy. 

Decorate with streamers that look like waves, bubbles made from clear balloons, and plenty of fish and sea creature cutouts.

🐠 Decor Ideas: Ocean-blue backdrops, fish nets, and a cardboard submarine photo booth.

🧂 Snack Ideas: Goldfish crackers, “seaweed” (green apple licorice), and Jell-O cups with gummy fish.

🎂 Cake Idea: Fish-shaped cake or a wave-inspired blue ombré cake.

🌊 Fun Extra: Set up a small water play area if the weather allows—water tables or sprinklers work great.

29. ⚾ Grand Slam! Our Little Slugger is Turning FOUR

Step up to the plate for a birthday filled with home-run fun! 

Whether you host it at a park or transform your backyard into a baseball diamond, this theme knocks it out of the park. 

Use red, white, and blue as your color palette, and hand out foam fingers or baseball caps as party favors.

Decor Ideas: Mini baseball bats, chalked base paths, and a “Welcome to Owen’s Stadium” sign.

🌭 Food Ideas: Classic ballpark snacks—hot dogs, popcorn, soft pretzels, and Cracker Jack.

🎂 Cake Idea: Baseball-shaped cake or cupcakes with fondant baseball toppers.

🎉 Fun Game: Set up a tee-ball station or wiffle ball game for kids to play a few innings of fun.

30. 💦 Splash into FOUR (Water Play Theme)

If your child has a summer birthday, you can’t go wrong with a water-themed celebration! 

Whether you set up a backyard splash pad, a kiddie pool, or just crank up the sprinklers, kids will have a blast.

💧 Decor Ideas: Bright beach towels, pool floats, and signs like “Splash Zone Ahead” or “Dive into FOUR!” 

🍉 Food Ideas: Watermelon wedges, popsicles, “pool water” blue punch, and beach ball cake pops. 

🎂 Cake Idea: A blue ombré cake with gummy rings, mini beach balls, and a “Let’s Make a Splash” topper.

🩴 Extra Tip: Provide buckets or reusable water balloons and ask parents to bring swimsuits and towels!

31. 🏀 This Baller is FOUR (Basketball Theme)

Slam dunk your way into birthday fun with a basketball-themed bash! 

Use orange and black décor, hang up a mini hoop, and roll out a court-inspired table runner. 

Set up a “shootout” game using small basketballs and bins or toddler hoops.

🏀 Decor Ideas: Jersey-style banner with your kid’s name and number 4, orange balloons, and court floor tape.

🍊 Food Ideas: “Slam Dunk” orange slices, popcorn in paper cones, and basketball-shaped sugar cookies.

🎂 Cake Idea: Round orange basketball cake or a jersey-shaped cake with your child’s name.

💡 Fun Favor: Mini foam balls and whistle necklaces make great goody bag fillers.

32. 🎄 All I Want FOUR Christmas (Holiday Theme)

If your little guy has a December birthday, why not embrace the season with a festive holiday-themed party? 

Think red and green balloons, string lights, and candy cane stripes. 

Add in a hot cocoa bar, snowflake crafts, and a gingerbread decorating station.

🎁 Decor Ideas: Mini Christmas trees, faux snow, reindeer cutouts, and “FOUR the Holidays” banners. 

🍪 Food Ideas: Cookie decorating station, “Santa’s Snacks” (fruit + cheese trays), and peppermint bark favors. 

🎂 Cake Idea: A red velvet cake with green frosting and sprinkles, or a cake shaped like a Christmas present.

🎅 Extra Fun: Invite guests to come in their coziest pajamas for a “Christmas Morning” vibe!

33. 🎸 FOUR Rocks (Rock ‘n’ Roll Theme)

If your kid’s got rhythm, turn his 4th birthday into a mini music festival! 

Set up a “backstage pass” photo booth, and hand out inflatable guitars or microphones.

🎤 Decor Ideas: Star-shaped balloons, musical note banners, and a mini stage backdrop.

🍿 Snack Ideas: Popcorn in vinyl-record cones, “rock candy,” and “band snacks” like cheese cubes and crackers.

🎂 Cake Idea: Guitar cake or a cake decorated like a record.

🎶 Bonus Idea: Put on a playlist of kid-friendly jams and have a dance party!

34. 🪨 FOUR Rocks (Geology/Rock Collector Theme)

Got a little geologist on your hands? 

Celebrate his love of rocks, gems, and digging in the dirt with this down-to-earth party. 

Decorate tables with labeled geodes and rock specimens, and hand out tiny magnifying glasses for kids to inspect their finds.

🪨 Decor Ideas: Brown kraft paper tablecloths, rock-themed signs like “You Rock!”, and trays of polished stones for centerpieces.

🧁 Snack Ideas: Rock candy sticks, “dirt cups,” and chocolate “coal” pieces.

🎂 Cake Idea: Rock pile cake with candy boulders and edible gold flecks.

🪅 Fun Activity: Set up a gem mining station with sand or kinetic dirt and buried faux gems kids can “excavate.”

35. 🦁 ROAR I’m FOUR (Lion Theme)

Give your wild one a birthday full of roars, giggles, and lion-sized fun! 

Turn your party space into the savanna with golden yellow and orange decorations, faux grass mats, and jungle vines. 

Set up a lion mane craft station where kids can make their own using paper plates and streamers.

🦁 Decor Ideas: A “Pride Rock” cake table, lion face balloons, and a cardboard jeep photo booth.

🍪 Food Ideas: “Lion’s mane” fruit trays (arranged in a circle), paw print cookies, and animal cracker snack cups.

🎂 Cake Idea: Lion face cake with buttercream mane, or cupcakes with lion toppers.

🧢 Bonus Idea: Set up a “ROAR-Off” game and award the best lion roar with a mini crown or plush lion toy.

36. 🍨 We All Scream FOUR Ice Cream (Ice Cream Theme)

The sweetest celebration of the season!

Host a backyard ice cream party with a DIY sundae bar, waffle cone decorations, and pastel-colored balloons that look like scoops of ice cream.

🍦 Decor Ideas: Ice cream garlands, sprinkle tablecloths, and balloon “cones.” 

🍒 Food Ideas: Set out toppings like crushed cookies, sprinkles, whipped cream, cherries, and syrups so kids can make their dream dessert. 

Add “ice cream cone” cupcakes or mini cups of sherbet for variety. 

🎂 Cake Idea: A drip cake that looks like melting ice cream, or a cake shaped like a giant cone.

🎉 Extra Fun: Have a “sundae hat” decorating contest or a blindfolded ice cream flavor taste test!

37. 🏰 FOUR the Brave (Knight/Castle Theme)

Turn your backyard into a medieval kingdom with cardboard castles, knight helmets, and dragon decor. 

Kids can “joust” with pool noodles or go on a quest to slay the dragon (piñata).

🛡️ Decor Ideas: Red and gold banners, DIY shields, and a royal throne for the birthday knight.

🥖 Food Ideas: “Dragon claws” (chicken tenders), “sword skewers” (fruit on sticks), and “castle cupcakes.”

🎂 Cake Idea: Castle cake with turrets made from ice cream cones and a moat of blue frosting.

🪄 Optional Activity: Let kids design their own shields or crowns at a craft station.

38. 🛠️ Handy Helper (Tool Party)

Got a kid who loves fixing things? 

This theme is perfect for your little builder. Decorate with mini toolboxes, plastic tools, and construction signs that say things like “Caution: 4-Year-Old at Work.” 

Set up a DIY “fix-it” station with simple building or craft activities like hammering golf tees into foam blocks.

🔧 Decor Ideas: Pegboards, caution tape, and personalized aprons for each guest.

🛠️ Food Ideas: “Nuts & Bolts” snack mix, sandwiches cut into tool shapes, and cookies shaped like wrenches and saws.

🎂 Cake Idea: Toolbox cake or chocolate cake with candy nails, screws, and fondant tools.

🧰 Fun Favor: Fill mini toolboxes with crayons, stickers, and snacks to take home.

39. 🍂 Fall into FOUR (Autumn Theme)

If your little one has a fall birthday, this cozy and colorful theme is a perfect match. 

Think pumpkins, leaves, apples, and a touch of harvest magic—great for outdoor or indoor parties alike.

🍁 Decor Ideas: Use hay bales, plaid tablecloths, mini pumpkins, and garlands of fall leaves. 

Add a chalkboard sign that says “FALL into FOUR” and maybe even a leaf pile for jumping or photos.

🎃 Activities: Try pumpkin painting, an apple toss game, or a mini hayride around the yard. 

For toddlers, a corn sensory bin is always a hit.

🍎 Food Ideas: Caramel apples, mini pumpkin muffins, “fall snack mix” with candy corn, pretzels, and popcorn. 

Serve warm apple cider in cute paper cups.

🎂 Cake Idea: A rustic “naked” cake decorated with mini fondant pumpkins, edible leaves, or cinnamon stick toppers.

📸 Photo Tip: Set up a wooden crate with pumpkins, a birthday sign, and a “four-ever grateful” banner for the sweetest fall birthday photo booth.

Seasonal 4th Birthday Party Themes (By Season)

Because a December birthday is not the same as a July one. Here’s how to make the most of the season your little guy turns four.

☀️ Summer Themes for a Hot & Happy Birthday

These parties are perfect for backyard fun, splash pads, and sunshine!

Splash Into FOUR – Sprinklers, sponge toss games, and popsicle treats.

It’s COOL to Be FOUR – Ice pop decor, frozen treats, and bright pastels.

CaliFOURnia Dreamin’ – Chill beach vibes, surfboards, and fruity snacks.

O-Fish-ially FOUR – Ocean creatures, fishing games, and bubbles everywhere.

💡 Pro Tip: Always have sunscreen, towels, and a shady spot on standby!

🍁 Fall 4th Birthday Themes for Cozy Outdoor Fun

Cooler weather = the perfect excuse for hay bales, plaid, and pumpkin everything.

FOUR-ever Wild – Woodland creatures, scavenger hunts, and forest vibes.

Little Lumberjack – Pancakes, buffalo plaid, and log stacking games.

FOUR Ever Spooky – Cute ghosts, boo crew games, and pastel Halloween fun.

A Pirate’s Life 4 Me – Treasure hunts and walk-the-plank adventures.

🍂 Party tip: Use what nature gives you—leaves, logs, and fall light make great decor.

❄️ Winter Party Themes to Warm Up Cold Birthdays

Whether it’s snowing or not, these themes bring the cozy (and the cocoa).

All I Want FOUR Christmas – Holiday magic, reindeer games, and twinkle lights.

Un-Fourgettable – Gold balloons, photo displays, and sweet memories.

Obstacle Course Bash – Burn off energy indoors with tunnels, cones, and relays.

This Baller is FOUR – Indoor gym? Perfect spot for a mini basketball game!

🧤 Party tip: Keep the kids moving—and have slippers or socks ready for chilly floors.

🌷 Spring Birthday Themes Bursting with Color

The weather’s warming, flowers are blooming, and party season is back.

Bug Bash – Go exploring with magnifying glasses, plastic insects, and “ant snacks.”

Garden Helper Party – Let them plant something and get a little messy.

Kite Flying Fun – Windy weather = party win. Decorate and fly together.

Four Times the Fun – Bright primary colors, outdoor play, and simple games.

🌼 Party tip: Have a backup plan for rain—clear umbrellas make adorable photo props!

📸 4th Birthday Photo Ideas You’ll Want to Capture

  • Holding up four fingers in front of the cake
  • Close-up of the birthday cake + candles
  • Standing by the themed backdrop or party table
  • Laughing mid-game or activity
  • Group shot with friends or siblings
  • Candid moment blowing out the candles
  • Sitting proudly in a birthday chair or balloon throne
  • Flat lay of the invitation, outfit, and party favor

🎈 Pro tip: A balloon arch, streamer wall, or decorated chair makes an easy photo booth spot!

📝 Cute Captions for Birthday Photos

“Roaring into FOUR like a wild one!”

“Can’t believe this kid is FOUR today.”

“Four and fabulous (and full of cake).”

“He’s four and ready for more!”

“This is what four looks like.” – Insect scavenger hunts, magnifying glasses, and dirt pudding.

✅ Wrapping Up: Let’s Make FOUR the Best Year Yet!

No matter which theme you choose, your little guy’s fourth birthday is all about celebrating who he is right now—silly moments, big smiles, and all. 

Whether you go full DIY or keep it simple with some store-bought flair, what matters most is making memories he’ll love looking back on.

🎁 Final Tip: Don’t stress about perfection. Kids remember the fun, the cake, and the people—not whether the streamers matched the cups.

Save this list, pick a theme that makes your boy light up, and get ready for a day that’s four times the fun. 💙