34 Fun & Creative 3rd Birthday Party Ideas for Girls (Themes, Cakes + Activities!)

3rd birthday party ideas for girls

Your little girl is turning THREE—and that’s a big, fun deal.

At this age, she’s full of personality, opinions, and curiosity.

Whether she’s into glitter, animals, mermaids, or sweet treats, there’s a birthday theme that can match her vibe perfectly.

To make party planning easier (and way more fun), we’ve rounded up 34 of the cutest and most creative 3rd birthday party ideas for girls.

These themes are packed with charm, color, fun touches, plus a cake or food idea to help you plan with confidence.

Let’s dive in!

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Popular 3rd Birthday Party Themes for Girls

These party names are clever, memorable, and perfect for invites or party signs – making decorating easier for you.

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Party Kit | Invitation

1. Young, Wild and Three

Celebrate your little wild thing with a safari-style birthday full of energy and adventure.

Use animal-print balloons, leafy garlands, and jungle vines to set the scene.

Wild & Three jungle birthday setup with a toddler girl in a leopard-print dress and pink bow, surrounded by gold, leopard, zebra, and blush balloons; tropical leaf backdrop and gold letter balloons for a safari 3rd birthday party.

A fondant jungle cake or animal print cupcakes make for a wild treat.

Add animal ear headbands or face paint for the birthday girl and her guests.

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Bonus Idea: Set up a mini safari scavenger hunt around the yard or party space—hide small plastic animals for kids to find with binoculars!

2. Three is SO Sweet (Donuts)

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Party Kit | Donut Board | Invitation

Throw a donut bash filled with sprinkles and sugar!

Hang a donut wall and use colorful balloons and streamers.

“Three is So Sweet” 3rd birthday backdrop with a pastel pink arch, rainbow balloon garland, and giant marquee number 3 with sprinkle details; colorful indoor décor for a girl’s third birthday party theme.

Go for a donut stack “cake” or a sprinkle-frosted cake with donut toppers.

Kids will love a decorate-your-own donut station or donut stacking contest.

3. 3 Scoops of Fun

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This party’s a triple scoop of adorable.

Go with pastel colors, sprinkle confetti, and ice cream cone decorations.

Ice cream–themed 3rd birthday party backdrop reading “Three Scoops of Fun,” with rainbow balloon garland, pastel waffle table with pink drip, and a smiling toddler in an ice-cream shirt—sweet summer third birthday girl party décor and photo spot.

A DIY sundae bar or ice cream cone cupcakes add a sweet touch.

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Let kids decorate aprons or host a “guess the flavor” game for some extra fun.

Bonus Idea: Freeze little toys inside ice cubes and let kids ‘excavate’ them at a sensory station—like frozen treasure!

4. Three-esta

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It’s a fiesta for your little señorita!

Decorate with papel picado, bright colors, and a mini piñata.

Fiesta “Three-esta” 3rd birthday setup with a smiling toddler in a white embroidered dress and rainbow flower crown, rose-gold number 3 balloon, rainbow streamer backdrop, and colorful balloon garland—bright, fun third birthday party idea for girls.

A rainbow scalloped buttercream cake topped with a gold “3” — bright, happy, and perfect for any third birthday.

Rainbow scalloped buttercream cake with a gold number 3 topper—bright, colorful 3rd birthday dessert.

Serve a taco bar with toddler-friendly toppings and a cinnamon churro cake.

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Hand out mini sombreros and dance with maracas to a kid-friendly playlist.

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Bonus Idea: Create a decorate-your-own maraca craft table with plastic eggs and spoons taped together!

5. Mermaid Magic (Under the Sea)

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Invitation | Party Kit

Make waves with an under-the-sea celebration that’s perfect for a little mermaid.

Use seashells, netting, and shimmery balloons to decorate the party space.

Mermaid 3rd birthday backdrop with pastel tail cutout, pink-purple-aqua balloon garland, light-up marquee number 3, and a smiling toddler girl in a pink tutu—under-the-sea party idea.

An ombre ocean-colored cake with mermaid tails and edible pearls is a must.

Pastel rainbow mermaid cake with a pink script name topper “Molly,” buttercream swirls, fondant mermaid tail and seaweed, and sugar pearls—under-the-sea birthday dessert.

Create a shell crown craft station or let guests pose in an underwater photo booth.

👉 Check out these 33 Mermaid Birthday Party Ideas for more inspiration!

6. Groovy, Wild and Three

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Channel those groovy vibes with a retro-inspired party full of peace, love, and flower power.

Decorate with daisy balloons, pastel tie-dye, and peace sign banners for that classic ‘70s vibe.

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Serve a funky rainbow cake or flower-shaped cookies with edible glitter.

Retro daisy cake with peach-to-pink ombré buttercream and white-and-yellow fondant daisies—groovy 3rd birthday dessert for girls.

Dress the birthday girl in bell-bottoms and heart sunglasses.

Groovy “Young, Wild and Three” backdrop with retro daisy balloon garland; smiling toddler in mustard bell-bottoms and daisy headband—boho 3rd birthday party idea for girls.

Bonus Idea: Set up a friendship bracelet station or a vinyl dance party complete with a mini disco ball.

7. Oui Oui, I’m Three

3rd birthday party themes for girls - oui oui i'm three french theme
Plates | Banner | Backdrop | Invitation

Bring the magic of Paris to your party with this sweet and stylish French theme.

Use Eiffel Tower cutouts, pink and black decorations, and mini café tables.

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Serve a macaron tower or pink buttercream cake with a tiny Eiffel Tower topper.

Paris-themed 3rd birthday scene with a toddler girl in a pink dress standing beside a pastel cake decorated with an Eiffel Tower, pearl border, balloon cluster topper reading “Oui, Oui, Sophie is Three!”, and soft party balloons.

Decorate mini berets or let guests play at a café pretend station.

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Quick Hosting Tip: Keep parties to 90 minutes—snack, activity, cake, done!

Sweet & Stylish 3rd Birthday Party Ideas for Girls

These party themes are perfect for the little one who loves all things dainty, sparkly, and sweet.

From tea parties to tiny ballerinas, this section is full of graceful and girly charm.

8. Three-haw!

Giddy up for a rootin’ tootin’ rodeo party.

Go with cow print balloons, hay bales, and lots of pink bandanas.

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Mini cornbread muffins, cowboy caviar, and a rustic horseshoe cake fit the theme perfectly.

Host stick horse races and give out sheriff badges to little cowgirls.

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If you love this idea, check out our Cowgirl First Birthday Party post!

9. So Sweet to BEE Three

This buzz-worthy theme is full of sunny, cheerful details.

Use honeycomb garlands, daisy balloons, and yellow streamers.

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A honey-drip cake with fondant bees is the perfect centerpiece.

Offer a bee antenna headband craft or host a “pollinate the flower” relay game.

11. Over the Rainbow

Bright, colorful, and full of cheer—this theme is all about color and joy.

Balloon garlands, rainbow tableware, and streamers bring the party to life.

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A layered rainbow cake or cupcakes topped with candy rainbows are perfect treats.

Bonus Idea: Set up a rainbow crown craft and a colorful confetti dance floor.

12. Tea for Three

Host a dainty tea party with all the trimmings.

Set the scene with floral linens, fancy cups, and string lights.

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Serve mini scones, fruit kabobs, and a tiered floral tea cake.

Let kids decorate cookies or play at a pretend tea bakery station.

13. Tiny Dancer

Perfect for your twirling toddler, this ballet-inspired party is soft, sweet, and full of motion.

Use tulle decorations, mirror dance walls, and pastel ribbons.

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A tutu-inspired cake with layers of pink ruffles is a showstopper.

Add a mini stage area for a tutu parade or ribbon wand dance.

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14. Sunflower Soirée

Celebrate summer’s happiest flower with sunshine and smiles.

Decorate with sunflower garlands, burlap runners, and yellow streamers.

Sunflower-shaped cookies and a naked cake with fresh sunflowers add charm.

Let kids paint flower pots or plant seeds to take home.

15. Royal Celebration (Princess)

Make your girl feel like true royalty with a glittering princess party.

Use pastel balloons, gold crowns, and castle backdrops to set the scene.

A castle cake or tiara-topped layer cake makes a royal impression.

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Set up a crown-making station and host a princess parade.

Animal-Themed 3rd Birthday Party Ideas for Girls

16. Purr-fectly Three

Celebrate with a paws-itively adorable kitten-themed bash.

Use pink and purple decorations, paw print balloons, and cute cat cutouts.

Decorate cupcakes to look like kitten faces or bake a kitty-shaped cake.

Add a yarn ball toss game or set up a whisker face paint station.

17. Paw-ty Time

Perfect for puppy lovers, this theme is full of tail-wagging fun.

Go with dog house cutouts, paw print tablecloths, and plush pup favors.

Serve dog bone-shaped cookies or a paw print cake.

Set up a puppy ear headband craft or a fetch-the-ball relay race.

18. Three-I-E-I-O

Old MacDonald has nothing on your party animal!

Use red barns, hay bales, and inflatable animals to bring the farm to life.

Offer “pig in a blanket” snacks and a barnyard cake with fondant animals.

Let kids try a “milk the cow” water game or decorate bandanas as farm gear.

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19. Three Little Pigs

Bring the classic story to life with a cozy and creative party.

Decorate with straw, sticks, and bricks to represent each pig’s house.

Serve “pig in a blanket” snacks and a cake featuring the three pigs and their homes.

Set up a piggy snout photo booth and a straw house bean bag toss.

Outdoor 3rd Birthday Party Ideas for Girls (With Fun Activities)

Perfect for spring and summer birthdays (or indoor play spaces with lots of room!).

20. Outdoor Art Party

If your little artist is always asking for paper and markers, this birthday theme will be a total hit!

Bright balloons, a rainbow bunting, and a cute sign that says “Three and Artsy!” or “Color Me 3!”

Make it extra sweet by clipping finished art to a clothesline display.

Think finger-friendly snacks like fruit kabobs, mini cheese cubes, and cupcakes with colorful frosting “paint splatters.”

A painter’s palette sugar cookie is a fun treat, too.

21. Camp Cutie

Bring the campfire vibes with cozy, outdoorsy fun.

Use pink tents, lanterns, and faux campfires as decor.

Serve trail mix cones and a log-inspired campfire cake.

Offer a lantern craft table or a storytime circle under twinkle lights.

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Invitation

22. Bubble Bash

A bubbly, bright theme for the ultimate summer bash.

Use bubble machines, floating balloons, and iridescent streamers.

Top off the day with a bubble-topped cake or clear gelatin “bubble” decorations.

Add a bubble painting station and a bubble-popping dance game.

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23. Under the Sea

Bring the magic of the sea to life with this colorful and ocean-inspired party.

Use fish nets, blue ombre streamers, and shimmery balloon garlands to set the scene.

Toddler girl in a pink dress stands barefoot by double doors decorated with green “seaweed” streamers and pastel glitter fish and seahorses—simple DIY under-the-sea birthday backdrop.

Create a coral reef cake or serve cupcakes with fondant sea creatures.

Set up a seashell dig or let kids make ocean-in-a-bottle sensory crafts.

Bonus Idea: Add a bubble machine for nonstop ocean magic—kids love chasing the ‘sea bubbles’!

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24. Splash Into Three

Cool down with water games and beachy fun.

Decorate with inflatable beach balls, kiddie pools, and sunshine banners.

Toddler girl in a rainbow striped swimsuit standing in an inflatable kiddie pool, with a colorful balloon garland and rose-gold number 3 balloon—backyard “splash into three” birthday.

Serve a pool cake with gummy rings and beach ball toppers.

Pool party “Splash into Three” cake with pink and yellow tiers, heart sunglasses, white polka dots, life preserver accents, a popsicle topper, and a yellow number 3—summer 3rd birthday dessert.

Create a toy car wash station or a sponge toss zone.

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25. Berry Sweet & THREE

This theme is juicy, charming, and full of summer flavor.

Use gingham patterns, berry baskets, and strawberry garlands. Bake a strawberry-drip cake or serve strawberry shortcake in cups.

Host a spoon relay with pretend berries or a berry-sorting sensory bin.

Set a Start/End Time: 10:00–11:30 a.m. to avoid nap crashes and keep cleanup easy.

Seasonal 3rd Birthday Party Ideas for Girls (Spring, Summer, Fall & Winter)

Looking for 3rd birthday party ideas based on the time of year your little one was born?

These seasonal themes are perfect for planning something sweet and festive! Let the season guide your party color scheme, food, and decor!

Spring

26. Somebunny is Three

3rd birthday theme for girls - somebunny is three party
Balloon Kit | Mom Shirt | Invitation | Cake Topper

Celebrate with pastel colors, egg hunts, and bunny magic.

Use bunny ear garlands, fluffy tails, and carrot centerpieces.

Toddler girl wearing bunny ears and a pink tutu with a “3” shirt in a backyard—Somebunny Is Three bunny-themed 3rd birthday outfit idea.

A bunny face cake with coconut “fur” and marshmallow ears makes the perfect sweet treat.

Bunny birthday cake with pink glitter ears, buttercream rose flower crown, heart nose, closed eyes, and fondant paws—“Somebunny Is Three” cake idea.
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Add a bunny hop race or a “pin the tail on the bunny” game.

27. Wild & Three

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This spring-themed take on the classic is full of flowers and outdoor fun.

Decorate with wildflower bouquets, floral banners, and garden details. Serve edible flower cupcakes or a rustic naked cake with florals.

Create a wildflower crown craft station or host a floral scavenger hunt.

Summer

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28. TWO Cool for Three

Beat the heat with cool treats and chill vibes.

Use beach balls, popsicle garlands, and sunglasses as decor. Serve an ice cream-shaped cake or popsicle-shaped cookies.

Let kids design their own paper sunglasses or cool off with a splash zone.

29. Hello, Sunshine!

A cheerful summer theme that’s bursting with sunshine and smiles.

Decorate with sun cutouts, yellow garlands, and sunshine-themed plates and napkins.

A bright yellow sun cake or cupcakes with smiling sun toppers are perfect for the sweets table.

Set up a sunshine art station or a sunbeam dance floor with yellow streamers and music.

Fall

30. Our Little Pumpkin is Turning Three

Celebrate with warm fall colors and sweet pumpkin touches.

Decorate with pumpkins, hay bales, and twinkling lights. Pumpkin spice cake with buttercream leaves is a seasonal favorite.

Add a mini pumpkin decorating station or a fall-themed sensory bin with leaves, corn, and small gourds.

Bonus Idea: Include a decorate-your-own pumpkin craft station—stickers, paint pens, and sparkles make it easy and mess-free.

31. Trick or Three

Add a girly twist to Halloween with a sweet and spooky celebration.

Decorate with pastel pumpkins, pink and black streamers, and glittery spider webs.

Serve ghost-shaped cookies or a pink funfetti cake with candy eyeballs.

Set up a glam pumpkin painting table or a ‘pin the bow on the bat’ game.

32. Pink Pumpkin Patch

This soft and sweet fall theme is full of whimsical charm.

Use pink pumpkins, gold glitter accents, and white hay bales to create a cozy autumn setting.

A pink buttercream cake with fondant pumpkins and gold details fits the vibe.

Offer a pumpkin painting station or a fairy-lit photo booth.

Winter

33. Three is Snow Much Fun

Celebrate winter wonder with snowy decorations and cozy fun. Use faux snow, snowflake garlands, and icy blue tones.

A snowflake cake with white chocolate shavings and blue sprinkles adds magic.

Include a snowflake wand-making craft or a penguin walk game.

34. Oh Christmas THREE

Deck the halls for a festive winter birthday celebration.

Use mini trees, red and green garlands, and cozy twinkle lights.

A Christmas tree cake or a red and green layered cake with candy cane toppers makes spirits bright.

Host a “decorate a cookie” station or a reindeer ring toss game.

Easy Hosting Tips for a 3rd Birthday Party for Girls

  • Keep the party to 1.5–2 hours max.
  • Avoid scheduling during nap time.
  • Choose 1–2 simple activities instead of a packed schedule. For example, try a coloring table with crayons and stickers, or a bean bag toss with soft targets—both are easy to set up and perfect for three-year-olds.
  • Offer kid-friendly snacks in bite-sized portions.
  • Take pictures early, before the sugar kicks in!
  • Set up a corner for grown-up snacks or coffee (they’ll thank you).

Frequently Asked Questions

How long should a 3-year-old’s party be?
About 60–90 minutes. Plan one activity, one snack, then cake.

How many kids should I invite?
A good rule is age + 2–3. For age 3, 5–6 kids is perfect.

What time of day works best?
Late morning or mid-afternoon to avoid nap windows.

What’s a realistic budget?
$75–$200 depending on food and favors. Keep décor simple and repeatable.

Easy party timeline?
10 min free play → 15–20 min activity → snack → presents (optional) → cake → photos.

Best quick activities for age 3?
Sticker stations, bubble play, beanbag toss, coloring pages, musical freeze.

Indoor vs. outdoor?
If weather’s iffy, plan indoors and add one low-mess floor activity (painter’s tape hopscotch).

Celebrate Your Little Girl with the Best 3rd Birthday Party Ideas

No matter which theme you choose, these creative 3rd birthday party ideas for girls will help you plan a celebration that’s fun, simple, and full of love.

Whether you’re hosting indoors or outdoors, in spring or winter, your daughter will feel truly special. From on-theme cakes to playful activities, you’ll find inspiration that fits every style.

Go ahead—pick a favorite, set the vibe, and let the birthday fun begin!

(And don’t forget to snap that birthday photo—you’ll blink and she’ll be four.)

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