Gone are the days when every baby shower was pink for girls or blue for boys.
More and more parents are embracing gender-neutral baby showers that focus on what really matters — celebrating the little one who’s on the way.
Whether you’re keeping the baby’s gender a surprise, planning a shower for parents who prefer a timeless look, or simply love the idea of soft neutrals and modern details, a gender-neutral baby shower gives you endless creative freedom.
You can mix textures, play with natural tones, and design a party that feels warm, welcoming, and uniquely you.
Gender Neutral Baby Shower Themes You’ll Love
From forest-inspired gatherings to starry-night celebrations, here are 15 gender-neutral baby shower themes that feel stylish, meaningful, and easy to pull off.
1. So Mush to Love
There’s so mush to love about this cozy, whimsical baby shower theme!
A mushroom-inspired celebration feels earthy and neutral, with just the right mix of cottagecore charm and modern style.
Decor: Use warm, natural colors like cream, terracotta, tan, and soft sage.
Add felt or wooden mushrooms, moss runners, and woven baskets filled with greenery.
A backdrop that says “So Mush to Love” instantly sets the tone.
Food: Think mushroom-shaped cookies, mini sandwiches, and cupcakes topped with tiny toadstool decorations.
A “make your own trail mix” station ties in perfectly with the woodland vibe.
Bonus idea: Create a cozy corner with a rattan chair, forest greenery, and a few oversized mushrooms for a sweet photo spot.
2. Twinkle, Twinkle Little Star
If you love a soft, dreamy aesthetic, this theme shines bright.
Create a night-sky vibe with star garlands, metallic accents, and gentle lighting.
Decor: Think gold and silver stars, moon balloons, and twinkle lights draped across tables.
Food: Serve star-shaped cookies, “moon pies,” or cupcakes with cloud-like frosting.
Bonus idea: Ask guests to write their hopes or wishes for the baby on little star cards and hang them on a “Wish Tree.”
3. Oh Baby, Let’s Grow
If you love a calm, earthy aesthetic, Oh Baby, Let’s Grow is such a sweet way to celebrate.
This theme leans into plants, greenery, and natural textures instead of traditional baby colors, so it feels modern, cozy, and completely gender neutral.
Decor: Stick to soft greens, creams, beige, and white.
Think potted plants, simple ceramic vases, and greenery garlands down the center of the tables.
Layer in woven baskets, wood accents, and maybe a letter board or acrylic sign that says “Oh Baby, Let’s Grow” for a simple focal point.
Food: Keep things fresh and light — veggie platters, fruit trays, herby dips, and simple finger foods all work beautifully.
For dessert, serve cupcakes topped with tiny leaf or sprout toppers, or a simple white cake decorated with greenery.
Bonus idea: Send guests home with small potted succulents or seed packets labeled “Thanks for helping baby grow.” It’s an easy, gender-neutral favor that feels thoughtful and on-theme.
4. A Little Cutie Is on the Way
Bright, happy, and bursting with citrusy energy, this orange-themed shower brings instant sunshine.
Decor: Orange balloons, citrus centerpieces, and greenery make everything pop.
Food: Offer orange-flavored cupcakes, cutie clementines, and a “mom-osa” bar with sparkling juice options.
Bonus idea: Display a sign that says, “You’re the zest!” for a playful photo-op moment.
5. Baby in Bloom
Who says florals are just for girls?
A Baby in Bloom shower can be completely gender-neutral when you focus on natural, garden-inspired details rather than overtly “girly” ones.
Decor: Choose soft greens, whites, creams, and buttery yellows for your color palette — or go earthy with terracotta, tan, and sage.
Skip the pink-heavy florals and instead mix wildflowers, eucalyptus, and baby’s breath for a fresh, organic feel.
Linen table runners, wooden vases, and greenery garlands add texture without leaning feminine.
Food: A light and fresh menu ties the theme together beautifully. Think fruit platters, garden salads, or lemon cupcakes with edible flowers.
Bonus idea: Send guests home with tiny seed packets labeled “Watch Me Grow” — a sweet nod to both the baby and the theme.
6. Silly Goose
Playful, lighthearted, and so easy to personalize — the Silly Goose theme is perfect for parents who love a laugh.
It’s cheerful, simple, and works beautifully with yellow, white, and light blue or sage accents.
Decor: Think white and yellow balloons, goose or feather details, and a playful banner that says “Welcome, You Silly Goose!”
Add white florals, rattan accents, and linen textures to keep it neutral.
Food: Mini lemon tarts, vanilla cupcakes, and a “Gosling Punch” mocktail are sweet and simple options.
Bonus idea: Give guests feather bookmarks or mini jars of honey with tags that say “You’re such a silly goose for coming!”
7. Boho Baby
Trendy yet timeless, the Boho Baby theme leans into natural textures and cozy minimalism.
Decor: Pampas grass, woven baskets, macramé wall hangings, and neutral table runners.
Food: Charcuterie boards and fruit platters fit perfectly with the laid-back vibe.
Bonus idea: Create a flower-crown station where guests can design their own floral accessories.
8. Wild About You
This theme celebrates just how loved this baby already is — no pinks, no blues, just pure joy.
Wild About You feels natural, cozy, and full of heart, blending modern boho style with a hint of adventure.
Decor: Think soft greenery, neutral balloons, woven textures, and sweet animal details like giraffes, elephants, or bears.
Skip the bold jungle prints and focus on organic shapes — garlands of eucalyptus, wood accents, and maybe a few rattan touches.
A sign that says “We’re Wild About Baby [Last Name]” makes the perfect photo backdrop.
Food: Keep things simple and fun.
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A grazing table filled with fresh fruit, crackers, and dips pairs beautifully with “wild” cupcakes topped with leafy or animal-inspired toppers.
Bonus idea: Set up a DIY “Advice for the Wild Ride Ahead” station where guests can share their best parenting tips or words of encouragement.
9. Honey Bee (“What Will It Bee?”)
Sweet and symbolic, the bee theme is perfect for parents-to-bee.
Decor: Use yellow and white with honeycomb accents, sunflowers, and bee details.
Food: Honey drizzled over pastries or bee-themed cookies.
Bonus idea: Mini honey jars labeled “Sweet as can bee.”
10. Adventure Awaits
Adventure doesn’t belong to boys or girls — it belongs to this new little human who’s about to change everything.
An Adventure Awaits baby shower is all about celebrating the journeys this baby will go on and the family memories you’ll make together.
Decor: Keep things neutral and cozy with soft tones like cream, tan, sage, and dusty blue or muted teal (instead of bold navy and bright blue).
Mix in kraft paper, twine, vintage-style maps, and simple globes. You can add banners that say “Adventure Awaits” or “Oh, the Places You’ll Go” without leaning into any specific gender.
Food: Serve “travel snacks” like mini sandwiches, trail mix cups, fruit skewers, and cookies shaped like clouds, hot air balloons, or little suitcases.
A simple neutral cake with a tiny suitcase or globe topper finishes the look without feeling too themed.
Bonus idea: Set up a “Tickets for Baby’s Adventures” station where guests write a wish, a place they hope the baby visits someday, or a tiny piece of life advice on faux “boarding passes” or postcards.
11. Little Sunshine
Bright, happy, and full of joy — this theme radiates positivity.
Decor: Yellow and white balloons, sunburst signs, and cheerful floral centerpieces.
Food: Lemon bars, sunshine cupcakes, and citrus punch.
Bonus idea: A backdrop that says “You Are My Sunshine” makes adorable photo memories.
12. We Can Bearly Wait
Cuddly, cozy, and undeniably sweet — this gender-neutral theme is pure baby-shower perfection.
The We Can Bearly Wait theme brings soft textures, warm neutrals, and a touch of nostalgia that works beautifully for any season.
Decor: Mix teddy bears of different sizes with woven baskets, gingham or linen tablecloths, and simple greenery.
Add a balloon garland in beige, ivory, and caramel tones for a soft, modern twist.
Wooden signage or a backdrop that reads “We Can Bearly Wait” makes the perfect photo spot.
Food: Keep it comforting and cute — think honey-themed treats, mini sandwiches, and cupcakes topped with tiny bear ears.
You can even serve “bear-y sweet” lemonade or iced tea.
Bonus idea: Offer teddy bear cookies or jars of local honey as favors, tied with a tag that says “Thanks for bearing with us until baby arrives!”
13. A Baby Is Brewing
Warm, cozy, and perfect for coffee-loving parents, A Baby Is Brewing brings the café vibes home.
This theme feels effortlessly gender-neutral with its soft browns, creamy whites, and touches of caramel or mocha tones.
It’s stylish enough for a modern mom-to-be but relaxed enough for a Sunday brunch-style celebration.
Decor: Create a cozy coffee-bar setup with neutral balloons, burlap runners, and simple signage that says “A Baby Is Brewing.”
Add mini coffee cups, wooden trays, and greenery for a warm, welcoming feel.
Food: Serve a build-your-own latte bar or coffee station alongside pastries, mini donuts, and croissants.
Offer decaf and fun mocktail versions so everyone can join in.
Bonus idea: Send guests home with mini bags of coffee beans or “Baby Is Brewing” mugs as favors — perfect for both moms and dads.
14. Little Pumpkin (Fall Favorite)
Warm and cozy, this is the ultimate autumn baby shower theme.
Decor: Mini pumpkins, plaid blankets, and copper details.
Food: Pumpkin-spice cupcakes, apple cider, and donut walls.
Bonus idea: Paint pumpkins white and add “Oh Baby” in gold script for a beautiful centerpiece.
15. Winter Wonderland
Dreamy whites and silvers make this theme perfect for a winter due date.
Decor: Snowflakes, twinkle lights, and frosted greenery.
Food: Hot cocoa, snowball cookies, and vanilla cake.
Bonus idea: Hand out cocoa-mix favors with tags that say “Baby, It’s Cold Outside.”
🎁 Don’t Forget the Favors!
Guests love leaving with something small but thoughtful — and favors work with every single gender-neutral theme on this list.
Need ideas? Check out my baby shower favor ideas post for simple, cute options that don’t feel cheesy and won’t blow your budget.
Tips for Throwing a Gender-Neutral Baby Shower
1. Focus on emotion, not color.
Use texture, lighting, and thoughtful décor to create atmosphere rather than relying on pink or blue.
2. Pick a color palette that feels natural.
Creams, sage, gold, tan, blush, and white all pair beautifully. You can even add subtle pops of mustard, terracotta, or dusty blue.
3. Keep your invites inclusive.
Instead of “It’s a boy!” or “It’s a girl!”, try phrases like “Oh Baby!”, “A Little One Is on the Way,” or “Join Us to Celebrate Baby [Last Name].”
4. Make activities simple but meaningful.
Think advice cards, baby name suggestions, or a “guess the birth date” calendar.
5. Choose neutral favors.
Candles, honey jars, succulents, or handmade soaps work for everyone — no gendered packaging needed.
6. Blend modern and sentimental.
Combine timeless details (like keepsake books) with stylish touches (like acrylic signage or minimalist cake designs).
Bonus Tip: If you’re planning the shower for someone else, ask them about their vibe — modern, cozy, boho, or classic — and choose a theme that feels most them.
🌸 Keep the Celebration Going
Ready for more ideas? These posts will help you plan every part of the party:
- Winter Baby Shower Themes
- Baby Shower Games That Don’t Suck
- Baby Shower Food Ideas
Save a few to read next, or pin them for later so you have everything in one place when you sit down to plan.
Have Fun PLanning Your Gender Neutral Baby Shower!
A gender-neutral baby shower gives you the freedom to design a celebration that’s stylish, heartfelt, and all about welcoming new life.
Whether you lean into cozy woodland vibes, modern boho textures, or something bright and sunny, the possibilities are endless — and every one of them is picture-perfect.
So grab your favorite theme from this list, start planning your décor, and don’t forget to pin this post to save your favorite ideas for later.